Because of my realistic expectations, there is no such thing as disappointment in my life.
I want to experience real depth with people, so I let go of the fairy tale notions of my youth. I maintain realistic expectations so there is no such thing as disappointment in my life.
I am human and fallible. While I strive daily to be my best self, I recognize that growing and maturing is a process. I know that my actions, attitudes, and performance will sometimes leave room for improvement. That’s okay! As long as I am continually moving forward, I am satisfied.
I extend the same courtesy to others. Because I want them to understand my human tendencies and weaknesses, I allow others to be human as well.
My spouse, co-workers, children and friends all have their own unique personalities and sets of challenges. By granting them permission to be fallible, I set myself up for more genuine relationships that will sustain us all during hard times.
And hard times do come! I keep in mind the fact that Hollywood is a mirage and that real life is tough for the vast majority of the world.
I have let go of the idea that somehow I should be insulated from the troubles of humanity and be allowed to live a fairy tale life in my castle in the clouds.
Because I value real life with authentic and rewarding relationships, I free myself of the need for perfection and live in the moment, finding joy and opportunity in each day.
Self-Reflection Questions:
1. Do I expect perfection of myself?
2. Do I allow others to be human and fallible?
3. Am I longing after a fairy tale, or am I making the most of my reality?
How do you live in the moment?
